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To shut down the intrusive questions, she created a “Pregnancy Jar”: every time someone asks about babies or pregnancy, they have to put $1 in the jar. It worked brilliantly — for 4 months, the questions stopped completely.
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Then, at a family dinner, her brother (who’d been away) innocently asked the forbidden question. Without missing a beat, she brought out the jar and asked for his dollar. He laughed awkwardly, refused at first, then paid while everyone stared.
The mood turned icy. Her mom later pulled her aside, called her childish and rude for embarrassing her brother in front of the family, and defended the questions as “concern” because the couple is in their mid-30s and “time/eggs are running out.”
The woman pointed out that if people stopped asking, she’d stop bringing the jar. An argument erupted, and she and her husband left.
The jar may be gone, but the boundary (and the tension) remains.