My son asked why no one came. He had woken up from surgery in a recovery room with tubes in his arms and his chest newly sewn together, and the first thing he wanted to know was where everyone was. Where was Grandma.
Where was Grandpa. Where was Auntie Chloe. The nurse told me this quietly, her voice already carrying the sadness of someone delivering news they wish they did not have to deliver.
My son was six years old. He still believed that love was something you earned by being good enough. I had believed that too, for a long time.
I had been very good at being good enough. I had been sitting in that waiting room for nine hours when she came to tell me he had made it through. Nine hours of antiseptic air and bad coffee and a heart that kept trying to leave my chest.
The relief was so total and so physical that my legs disappeared beneath me and I had to catch myself on the edge of the chair. But then she told me what he had said when he woke up. And something that had been cracking in me for years finally broke all the way through.